The world we have created is a product of our thinking; it cannot be changed without changing our thinking. -Albert Einstein

Monday 27 November 2017

￰शबनम से नाज़ुक उसकी  हथेलियों की गर्माहट को महसूस  तो किया पर उसकी आँखों मैं वह इखलास  ना दिखा  जो  किसी ज़माने  मैं हुआ  करता  था .
वक़्त  ने  कुछ इस कदर  महरूम  किया
जब खाना बदोश  फिरते  थे  उसकी तलाश  में
उसने अपने ज़ेहन  से हमारे  मरासिम  को कुछ ऐसा  दरकिनार  किया ...
अब  पाके  भी उसको  खो  सा  चुका हूँ  मैं  .....

Monday 20 November 2017

Optimists vs Pessimists

The optimist
Isn't it  joyful?                                                                              
How our grandparents and parents are aging so gracefully.
The once famous couple of our class are now happily married and parents to not one but two lovely children.
While some of us are okay taking smaller steps in life and enjoying the marvels of technology by watching some of the best shows created by the talented minds of entertainment industry.
Work is getting more challenging.
Bosses are getting involved more than before.
Dimmer vision can be corrected by a single surgery.
Medical advancements for hair treatments and a younger and fuller skin
Life is more organised, more scheduled and more disciplined.
This dicipline culminates to the monthly credit messages in the account which pays the EMI's and the bills.
Salaries are more and more is always better isint it?
Newer phones and newer dresses
Now "New" is the constant .
People laugh,explore,enjoy and they share all that on the social media.
It helps you connect,imagine,explore and broaden your horizon to experience something different and varied.
This "so called race" is not a race.It's a journey where each one is allowed to have their own pace.You can walk fast or you can walk slow but the motive is to keep on walking because stopping is not what is appreciated.Stopping is giving up.Would you like to give up on life just like that?
Definations of happiness have changes but essence remains the same
Times gets tougher but tough makes you stronger
Memories getting shorter but livelier.
Life forcing you to not just be alive  but also to live life.
Experience things,emotions,places,people like never before like our forefathers couldn't and embrace the uncertainties with courage and defiance
Life completes a full circle.
The pessimist
Isn't it sad?
How our parents and grandparents are getting older 

The once proclaimed school lovers in our class are now parents to two children

While some of us are still busy binge watching the latest season of the "over-hyped" television series over the weekend

Deadlines at work getting stiffer

Bosses turning bossier

Vision turning dimmer

Receding hairlines and that deadly day of spotting the first strand of grey hair

Hitting the gym,hitting the shower,eat and in the car

The 12 hours of corporate slavery which ends up in your bank account at the end of the month.

The new iPhone, the new dress

 A new chaos and a new mess

That friend on the Facebook with a BMW

And that one with a posh bunglow

Or the one who takes a vacation to exotic locations every year

The ones who calm down and put their feet down are left behind...

This race this great competitive human race of defeating each other leads us to different destinations...

It leaves some of us on to the heights of the corporate ladders where the ambitious exhilaration gives them pleasure

The others who are unable to balance on this ladder either fall down and succumb to the injuries while those
 
ahead don't even turn back to give them a helping hand and those who do get the helping hand pull those so called helpers down to go ahead...

The time moved faster than anything in this world 

Memories get shorter

Times get tougher

And those ahead in this mad race find themselves left alone for once in life.

Life takes two half circles.